Booty Call Booty Rocker Butt Plug vs Dr Joel Perineum Massager

Two prostate toys with very different approaches: the Booty Rocker is a 4.75-inch silicone plug that reviewers say stays put and delivers reliably, while the Dr Joel is a 6.5-inch ABS plastic massager that's heavier and firmer but divides opinion more sharply. Both are non-porous and body-safe, but the Booty Rocker has the stronger track record with buyers.

The Booty Rocker has 65 reviews averaging 4.7 stars. The Dr Joel Perineum Massager has 72 reviews averaging 3.9 stars. Both have enough feedback to trust the pattern, and the Booty Rocker's higher rating holds across multiple retailers.

The Booty Rocker is shorter at 4.75 inches insertable and made from silicone, which gives it some flex and warmth. It weighs 65 grams, so it's light enough to forget you're wearing it. The Dr Joel is longer at 6.5 inches, made from rigid ABS plastic, and weighs 120 grams — nearly twice as heavy, which some people love for the constant presence and others find too much.

Material matters here: silicone cleans with soap and water and has a bit of give, while ABS plastic is firm, slick and stays cool. Both are non-porous, so both can be properly sterilised.

Both are non-porous and body-safe, so you can clean them thoroughly and they'll last. Neither product lists maximum diameter, flare dimensions or taper angle in the specs, so we can't compare those — and those are the measurements that actually tell you whether something will work for you. If you need those numbers before buying, contact the retailer directly.

If you want something you can wear comfortably for a while and forget about, the Booty Rocker suits that better — it's lighter, softer and reviewers consistently say it stays put without demanding attention. If you want to feel exactly where the toy is at all times and prefer firmness over flex, the Dr Joel's weight and rigidity deliver that, though it asks more of you and some buyers found it uncomfortable.

Both are sold as prostate toys. The Booty Rocker has a stronger reputation for delivering what it promises. The Dr Joel works well for some people and not at all for others, so it's the higher-risk choice unless you already know you prefer heavy, rigid toys.

Is the Booty Rocker Butt Plug suitable for beginners? The specs call it a petite beginners' probe, but some reviewers suggest starting with a training kit first. Others say it's perfect for all levels. If you're new to this, it's worth knowing it divides opinion on that front.

Is the material body-safe? Yes — the Booty Rocker is premium silicone, smooth and sturdy. The Dr Joel is ABS plastic, also body-safe and non-porous.

Can the Booty Rocker be worn for extended periods? Yes. Reviewers say it's comfortable for long wear, with one noting it "can be held inside for a long time" and another saying it's "comfortable to wear, even for a longer while".

Does it enhance orgasms? Reviewers of the Booty Rocker report that it does, with several saying it leads to powerful or more intense orgasms. That's one of the most consistent themes in the feedback.

The Booty Rocker is the safer bet — it does what it's meant to do, reviewers like it consistently, and the silicone makes it forgiving enough for most people. The Dr Joel works brilliantly for some buyers, but the lower rating and the split opinions mean you're taking more of a chance. If you already know you want something heavy and rigid, it might be worth that risk. If you're still working out what you like, go with the Booty Rocker.

Both products are stocked by multiple retailers in New Zealand and internationally. Coy carries the Booty Rocker. For the Dr Joel, check availability with your preferred retailer. Prices vary, so it's worth comparing before you buy.

The Snug Report is published by the team behind Coy, a New Zealand retailer that stocks many of the products reviewed here. We say so on every page. Our scores come from aggregated public reviews, not from us — the method is on the methodology page and the evidence count is on every review.