Big Boy Intense P-Spot Vibrator review

A prostate massager with a longer neck than the original — which matters, because the earlier version had a habit of slipping out. It's 5.7 inches insertable, rechargeable, and part of Rocks Off's updated Intense line.

The Big Boy Intense is bulbous and substantial — you know it's there. Reviewers who tried the original version consistently mentioned trouble keeping it in place because the neck was too short, but the Intense update addressed that. One reviewer noted that "the Intense versions of Rocks Off toys have longer necks", which makes a real difference when you're trying to keep something positioned properly.

It's rechargeable now, using Rocks Off's Ignition bullet, which means no more battery hunting. The shape is designed to press against the prostate, and the bulk of it gives you something to work with — though that same bulk means it asks more of you than a slimmer toy would.

The texture is smooth silicone, so it moves easily with lube and cleans up without fuss. Reviewers are split on this one overall — the satisfaction subscore sits at 65, and the value subscore is notably lower at 27, which suggests people expected more for the price. The ones who liked it appreciated the size and the updated features; the ones who didn't found it either too much or not quite right for their anatomy.

It's not whisper-quiet, but it's not conspicuously loud either. The weight — just under 400 grams — means you always know where it is, which some people find reassuring and others find tiring over longer sessions.

This suits someone who already knows they enjoy prostate play and wants something with presence. If you're still working out what you like, or if you're new to this, start smaller — the Big Boy asks a lot of you, and there's no beginner-friendliness subscore because the data doesn't support calling it beginner-friendly.

If you tried the original Big Boy and gave up on it because it wouldn't stay put, the Intense version's longer neck might solve that. If you've never tried the original, you won't miss what you didn't have.

Skip it if you want something discreet, if you're price-sensitive, or if you prefer a toy that doesn't demand much attention. The value subscore of 27 tells you that reviewers felt they were paying for the name more than the experience.

Silicone, so soap and hot water is genuinely all it needs. No special cleaners, no fuss. It's non-porous, which means you can clean it properly and it'll last as long as you don't tear it or leave it somewhere hot.

Use water-based lube only — silicone lube can degrade silicone toys, and you won't know until it's too late. Store it somewhere it won't get squashed or pressed against other silicone toys, because they can bond to each other over time.

It's rechargeable, so keep the cable somewhere you'll remember. The Ignition bullet is replaceable if it ever gives up, which is more than you can say for most rechargeable toys.

If the Big Boy's bulk or price puts you off, have a look at the comparison page — it sits alongside the Anal Twist Dildo 10 Inch, which is a different shape entirely but similar in length. That comparison will show you where the two diverge on size, flexibility and what reviewers actually said about using them.

If you want something smaller to start with, the roundup of prostate toys ranked by Coyscore will show you what scores better and costs less.

It's a prostate toy, so it sits in a category full of things that promise precision and deliver variably. The Big Boy Intense scores 66, which puts it in the middle of the pack — not a standout, not a disaster.

The best prostate toys roundup ranks everything by Coyscore, so you can see what beats it and what doesn't. If you're wondering whether this is the right one, that page will answer it.

What is the circumference of the Big Boy? Five inches, which is substantial. If you're used to slimmer toys, that's a noticeable step up.

Does the Intense version address the short neck issue? Yes. Reviewers who tried both versions confirm that the Intense line has a longer neck, which helps with retention. The original had a habit of slipping out; this one is less likely to.

A rechargeable prostate massager with a longer neck than the original, which solves the retention problem people complained about. It's bulky, it's not cheap, and reviewers are split — the ones who liked it appreciated the size and the update, but the value subscore of 27 says most people felt they paid too much.

If you know you want something substantial and you're not price-sensitive, it's worth considering. If you're new to prostate play or you want something that feels like good value, look elsewhere.

It's priced at $180.95. Where you can get it depends on where you are — the button below will show you.

This review draws on 153 aggregated reviews across 2 retailers, averaging 3.6 stars. The Coyscore is 66, which we call "Worth a Look" — middle of the range, with enough data to trust the score. Confidence is high because the review count is substantial and the sources are consistent.

Insertable length: 5.7 inches
Material: Silicone
Non-porous: Yes
Weight: 0.391 kg
Maximum diameter: Not stated by the supplier
Flared base: Not stated by the supplier
Taper: Not stated by the supplier

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